Does My Crush Like Me? Free AI Quiz + 12 Signs He’s Into You
The dating world has always revolved around the burning question: “Do they really like me?”
From teenage magazine quizzes to “he loves me, he loves me not” petal games, we’ve always searched for answers.
And today? We still do — except now it’s called the debrief.
The Debrief — Old School Detective Work
A newly popularized term in the theatrics of the dating world is the debrief.
Debrief: an investigative session between close friends decoding texts from your crush.
“What does this mean?” “Does he sound interested?” “Why did he say that?” “Does he like me?” All of these thoughts are floated around the room while everyone acts like detectives to try and crack the code of the mysterious, yet perfectly appropriate, texts.
It’s the smallest of things that leave much up to the imagination, a misplaced period or badly worded invite that makes us question if our crush really likes us back. Our ability to be sensible is out the window as soon as they take more than an hour to respond.
Everyone in the group chimes in with their opinion, a few response options are considered and finally we work up the courage to hit send. Alas, the cycle continues with the next ding of response that lends to more investigation.
However, most debriefs lack an informed, unbiased opinion. Everyone sees what they want to see.
The Fantasy Future Trap (Inspired by Psychology)
How many times have you found yourself analyzing his messages, overthinking his comments, or spiraling into “what if”scenarios?
That uncertainty can feel like an emotional rollercoaster. Psychologists call this confirmation bias — when you want him to like you, you start seeing “proof” everywhere: the smile, the like on Instagram, the one nice text.
The truth? When a guy likes you, it’s usually pretty obvious. The signs are there. You just need to know which ones matter.
12 Clear Signs He’s Into You (Quick-Read Style)
📱 1. He Texts First
Consistently starting conversations = genuine effort. Guys pursue what they want.
💬 2. His Replies Have Substance
No dry “k” texts. If he’s sending full thoughts and questions, he’s invested.
📅 3. He Makes Real Plans
“We should hang out” is vague. Setting a date = true interest.
📝 4. He Remembers Details
Your dog’s name, your coffee order, that random story—he’s paying attention.
👀 5. His Body Language Gives Him Away
Feet and shoulders pointed at you, lingering eye contact, leaning in = attraction.
🚶 6. He Finds Excuses to Be Near You
Choosing the seat next to you, walking you out, or “accidental” run-ins aren’t random.
🔄 7. He Mirrors You
If he unconsciously copies your posture or energy, that’s subconscious attraction at work.
🕺 8. He Acts Different Around Other Guys
More attentive, playful, or protective = subtle way of showing he values you.
🤫 9. His Friends Already Know About You
The smirks, the teasing, the “oh, that’s her?”—he’s been talking about you.
🎁 10. He Goes Out of His Way
Offering help, sending memes, remembering your big day = quiet ways of saying “you matter.”
💡 11. His Compliments Hit Different
Not “you look nice.” More like “that color looks amazing on you.” Specific = sincere.
🕒 12. He Prioritizes You
Busy or not, if he makes time for you, he’s showing where his heart is.
👉 Mini-Test Time: Your Quick “Does He Like Me” Quiz
Count how many signs you nodded “yes” to:
0–1 / 12: Very low signal — enjoy the crush, but don’t over-invest yet.
2 / 12 (~16%): Low signal — there could be a spark, but you need more consistent behavior before you call it interest.
3–5 / 12 (~25–40%): Mixed — pay attention to momentum (are signs increasing week to week?).
6–8 / 12 (~50–65%): Likely — interest is showing up in patterns, not one-offs.
9–12 / 12 (65%+ by proportion): Strong — actions are loud and frequent; next step is to name the vibe and set a plan.
This quick “match math” gives you a fun gut check. But if you want more than a checklist, there’s a smarter way.
A New Solution — AI as Your Unbiased Friend
Instead of relying only on guesswork or group chats, SciMatch’ Does My Crush Like Me tool gives you clarity.
Our AI doesn’t just count signs. It:
- 🔍 Reads your messages for tone, reciprocity, and hidden signals
- 🚩 Flags red or mixed signals you might be overlooking
- ❤️ Guides you with psychologist-style questions for a nuanced, situation-specific answer
No petals. No overthinking. Just signals you can trust.
Not Texting Yet?
No worries. You don’t need a full convo to get insights.
SciMatch’s AI can guide you through a few key questions—just like a relationship psychologist would. It won’t give you false hope or vague answers. Instead, it helps you understand what might really be going on based on your vibe, expectations, and your crush’s behavior so far.
👉 Try the guided Do They Like Me? session — even without messages, you’ll walk away with clarity, not confusion.
No petals. No overthinking. Just signals you can trust.
FAQ
AI can’t read minds, but it can spot communication patterns and signals most people miss.
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The AI vibe check is free in limited mode, with optional upgrades.
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Of course — the debrief is fun. AI just gives you an unbiased second opinion.
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